men.. it's a BIG NOTE for you.

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 30 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER"

photo de ce soir :)

Je manque le Terengganu..<3

random:)

just had a chance to go and stalk on Maria Elena's latest entry posted. she's now engaged to her Mr. fiance! CONGRATULATIONS to both of them, and indeed i could see her happy, content, pleasant and feelings of everything in between when i scrolled down the pictures and vid taken on that day:) one step forward, and yeah she'll be wearing the title Mrs. :D

some points to highlight :-

- it's a good thing to see some people out there end, or about to end their single life by settling down with the one whom they've been wishing and waiting and hoping all this while to live with, to share the whole life journey with, to have kids with, to help you do the house chores with, to shop for groceries with, to buy all the furnitures and curtains and home decorations with, to be there by the bedside to give u medication when you fall ill, and just EVERYTHING that you don't wish to share and even have a thought of it, with another man.

- Allah has arranged EVERYTHING from the very beginning, and that's what we call qada' dan qadar. eventhough you're not getting what you want, what you'd wished for at this very instance, you have to believe that there'll be something, someone else, better than what you'd been desired, yet to be awarded to you.. it's a matter of being PATIENCE, OPTIMIST of whatever things that had happened and distracted you previously, and lots of PRAYER to Allah will make you appreciate and be thankful of what you have with you right now, insyaAllah :)


p/s: Maria Elena and Adele are my current idols and role models teheheheheh. why? because they're just amazing in their own way, i know ;)

blessed enough.

laradansa :)

laradansa --the name sounds nice and very feminin-ish huhh? just like kak nurul, my dance teacher said "..woahh very 'the' gitu..!" LOL :D i loike! so yeah, basically that's the so-called official name of our group for the cocurricular dance *winking* we need to figure for a good name and i guess we did!done with the folio submission and yes, the biggest part of it will be to perform the whole three tarians on this coming thursday; zapin,joget and inang, meant to be for our final test in group, and on STAGE uols!-.- okay adrenaline rush! doakan kami berjaya lakukan yang terbaekkkk okay :)

one, two, three.. *click!*. meet laradansa; umie, farim, me and wowwa ;)

spoilt brat.

masih hingusan ;)

I want to go back in time and want my childhood days back when

"Dad" was the only "Hero"

"LOVE" was "Mom's hug"

"Highest place on earth" was "Dad's shoulder"

"My worst enemies" were "My own siblings"

Only thing that could "HURT" were "Blisters"

The only thing "BROKEN" were my "Toys"

and when "GOODBYES" meant till "Tomorrow" ..

epic , yeah abah's shoulder <3

literally.

this is what i could literally conveyed what's inside my head. i mean at this moment.don't ask me why..


we used to talk about our future
like we had a clue
never planned that one day i'd be losing you..

in another life
i would be your girl
we keep all our promises
be us against the world

in another life
i will make you stay
so i don't have to say
you were the one that got away..




yeah, just so you'd know its 2.45 am, 26/11 and im still awake despite being so restless after went back from watching the Mock Trial The Musical presented by the awesome people of Faculty of Law, two thumbs upp for you guys!

i should've given you guys a standing ovation though!:)

muhasabah cinta.

listing down the ugly truths i would say, that the guys should be.. em learnt from?embarassed of?i don't know..but obviously, this doesn't refer directly to ALL, because of the fact that tak semua lelaki sama kan? so siapa yg makan cili jelah:)

"cinta adalah sebuah kisah yang di dalamnya perempuan dengan bangga berperanan sebagai pahlawan, sedangkan bagi lelaki, dia lebih memilih menjadi pengarangnya..."


"cinta yang dianggap sekadar babak pertama bagi lelaki dalam hidup, merupakan hidup mati bagi seorang perempuan..."


"cinta seorang lelaki tidak lebih daripada selembar sampul depan, namun cinta seorang perempuan bagai lembaran-lembaran kertas yang tidak pernah habis.."


hey im not making fun of this though , these are indeed facts which i quoted from an islamic motivation book, written by a MAN named Burhan Sodiq. now you don't, now you see.assalamualaikum:)